My support

Individuals having Vitiligo need a lot of psychological support in their places of interactions. On my part, both my family and employer have been an anchor. I really thank my family; my wife and kids, for standing by me during all this time that I tried to find myself. My current employer Absa Bank of Kenya, have practically embraced diversity and inclusion and have given me equal opportunities with all my other colleagues. At times I have felt I have even been given more opportunities than I have deserved. I have never felt discriminated at work. This is the kind of support any person with Vitiligo would wish for.

It not easy when you get into a mall, walk on the street or any public place to have most people gazing at you. Its creepy most times. You need a thick skin which not everyone has. What I have come to appreciate is that vitiligo has made me have a stronger personality. I have learnt to wink at gazers, smile at kids who can’t stop looking, raise my hand in a room full of people, explain my condition over and over and I have learnt to stop and talk to my friends who also have Vitiligo. I have been stopped by several people with Vitiligo and asked how I am doing. Another the other day asked me why I am literary ‘so comfortable in my skin’. I told them its a deliberate choice I have made to stand up with Vitiligo.

Even with the great support I have had, I have learnt to have a strong mentality and always encourage myself spiritually. Every time I look at the mirror I am reminded that I am made in the ‘image and likeness of God’. My main lesson Vitiligo has taught me is that ‘It’s ok to be different’. This is where I draw my strength each and every day.